Saturday, May 18, 2013

Farewell Celebration with Family and Friends


May is always a special time of in the rhythm of our family -- we love graduation season and have attended and participated in numerous university commencements over a 25+ year career in higher education. Almost exactly a year ago -- May 2012 -- we had an open house celebrating Ethan's high school graduation from Ensworth School and his impending adventure to attend Brigham Young University as a new freshman. Good times!


The family at Ethan's graduation open house, May 2012.

At Ethan's graduation, Ensworth School, May 2012.

Fast forward one year, and another party -- this time to send Ethan off to McAllen, Texas with well wishes and fond farewell! We so appreciated the many family and friends who came to celebrate with Ethan, and share with him great advice, generous gifts to support and buoy him on his journey, and especially lots of love and encouragement.

We had little cards that said: "Sending love from Nashville ... to McAllen!" where friends could write a note or share some inspiration with Ethan.

The outpouring and variety of messages, favorite scriptures, encouragement, and words of love for Ethan was wonderful.

So far, we've sent Ethan a few cards at a time. He has a book where he can insert them and refer back often for continued messages from home.




Here are some photos from Ethan's missionary open house:



Andrew, so proud of his brother's decision to serve a mission!
Doug, our missionary, and Ethan's cousin Ben Hedin,
who came out from Salt Lake City for the weekend.

Ethan's Aunt Shannon Seare (Doug's sister), and Uncle Greg Seare,
also visiting from SLC for the weekend, along with their three wonderful kids. 































Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Nashville Tennessee Temple


Essential for missionary preparation is receiving the Temple endowment in a special ceremony in an LDS Temple that "endows" or "bestows" upon the individual special blessings and promises from a loving Heavenly Father. It's a very precious, powerful and sacred experience and Ethan chose the Nashville Temple for this occasion. There are more than 140 LDS Temples around the world, absolutely beautiful buildings -- learn more here.

Ethan was so happy to have many friends and family share this experience with him -- special mentors and youth advisers, our Bishop and other Church leaders. Even his "Grandma Gar-Gar" Alfene Page from Salt Lake City was in town for this special evening.





Ethan and his Grandma, Alfene Page,
from Salt Lake City, at the
Nashville Tennessee Temple

Thursday, May 2, 2013

"Model" Missionary!

We had so much fun getting Ethan's missionary pictures taken -- very special thanks to good friend, professional photographer, and fellow missionary mom Kate Lifferth for shooting these images of Elder Christiansen!

Kate chose beautiful Nashville scenery -- a historic barn, beautiful green fields, and the landmark stacked stone fences that are all over Middle Tennessee. It was a gorgeous day and lots of fun to spend time with her!

Check out a few of our favorite shots of Ethan:


Leaning against a historic barn.


More barn...and more Ethan!




This is one of my favorites. On the steps
of a historic farm house holding his
scriptures. I love Ethan's expression.


Ethan in front of one of the stacked-stone fences
that are all over Nashville.

Favorite!!


And just for fun to finish the day!
I love this one as well!








Monday, April 22, 2013

1 Suit, 10 Shirts, 6 Ties, Oh My ... and a New Friend!

So...after learning Ethan's assignment to McAllen Texas, and his leave date of June 5, we began working on all of the preparations listed in the big packet.  :)

One fun field trip was shopping for Ethan's missionary wardrobe. At the end of April, I went to BYU to help Ethan move out of his dorm, and we did his mission shopping there since there are many stores within a stone's throw of BYU that specialize in all things missionary. This was the place!

You can spot an LDS missionary a mile away: conservative suits, white shirts and ties for the men; and dresses or skits for the women -- and of course, the black name tag! However, we learned the missionary packing lists are tailored for climate, regions of the world, etc. -- great news since the temperature in Ethan's mission is 80+ from March to October, hitting 98+ in the summer months. And, he would be using a bike for his primary transportation, nearly every day. And, after his six weeks of training in Provo, Utah, he would be arriving in Texas on July 15th (average temperature 96 degrees). So...he/we were thankful his packing list called for just one suit, 10 shirts (nine short sleeved!), and six ties. He would only need to wear his suit jacket, and long-sleeved shirt, on Sundays and for meetings.


So, on Monday, April 22, 2013, in between his morning final in Econ and last review for an evening final in Creativity, off we went to Mr. Mac, a bastion of missionary attire and accouterments, and got it all done in about three hours: clothing selected, tried on, measured for tailoring; went through the voluminous selection of ties; purchased all the various accessory items -- shoes, socks, luggage, first-aid kit, etc. And learned a lot in the process as well. For example, who knew there were suits with special stretch and gussets in the jacket arms to make it more comfortable to reach the bike handles? And slacks with reinforced seams and fabric in the "seat" to handle the wear-and-tear of hours/days/months on a bike seat? All news to me. Off we went to a second store for study supplies, required books, and baptismal clothing, and Ethan was set. We had a great time together!

(I don't know what to say about all the orange...? We both were clearly channeling the colors of our beloved Ensworth school! Totally unplanned, a little matchy-matchy -- and, this is the same shirt Ethan had on when he opened his mission call. Perhaps a theme?)

Aside from getting the list checked off and having a great time, we also met another young man going to Ethan's same mission! The aforementioned shopping haven was buzzing with missionaries and parents doing exactly what we were doing. It reminded me of being in Target or Bed Bath & Beyond during freshman move-in weekend. I overhead a sales person ask another young man where he was serving, and my heart soared when I heard: "McAllen, Texas!" I went right over to say hello.

Turns out, this young man was, indeed, going to the same mission as Ethan, also Spanish speaking, and entering the Missionary Training Center (MTC) on the same day. He also was finishing his freshman year at BYU and lived a few dorms away from Ethan, though they had never met. Right in the aisle of dress shirts, they bonded instantly. A friend! A familiar face come June 5th! And a gift and a blessing, wrapped in a grey Nike t-shirt (or in an orange dri-fit, depending on your perspective)! And two missionary moms who were thrilled with this encounter and exhaling in the peace of knowing their sons would be going into the MTC together. It was a lovely experience.

Kason and his mom, Dana Renshaw
Ethan and Kason Renshaw, new friend
and fellow Texas McAllen missionary!




Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Where Will He Serve? Ethan's Mission Call!

Ethan received his "call" (or assignment) to serve as a volunteer missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on February 20, 2013. What a day!

He had worked over the previous Christmas break to finish up his paperwork, doctor and dentist visits, interviews and recommendations, and submitted his application on Saturday, February 9, 2013. Just a week-and-a-half later, we were so excited to learn that he received the big, fat packet in the mail. We couldn't wait to find out what it said!

Ethan with the packet containing the news
of his whereabouts for the next two years.
Check out that smile!

Since Ethan was away at school at Brigham Young University, he received his mail there and arranged a time with us for the big reveal. Doug, Andrew and I sat on the couch in the office at home and skyped with Ethan to hear him read his letter from Thomas S. Monson, President of the LDS Church, that indicated where he was being assigned to serve -- McAllen Texas, Spanish speaking! (Where?? The map showed it was essentially on the southern-most border of Texas and Mexico. How exciting!) Doug had an impression the few days prior that Ethan would be serving in the United States. We also were thrilled for Ethan to have an experience with another language as he really wanted to have that opportunity.

The letter also said that Ethan would report for his mission on June 5, 2013. This was great timing as he would finish his freshman at BYU, and have about five weeks at home to prepare, shop, pack -- and spend lots of time with family and friends before leaving for this amazing experience dedicating his life full-time to serving the Lord and others. That night, gathered close on the couch, we had a special time as a family hearing Ethan's call and seeing his excitement to serve! We could sense the beginning of an extraordinary journey for him, and for our entire family.

After we absorbed the news and details, Ethan went out into the hallway of his dorm, May Hall, and read the letter again with his friends at school. We watched this over skype as well -- check out the video clip below to get a glimpse of the excitement!